Tuesday, April 17, 2007,8:59 PM
i can be an easygoing person in general, but there r still some things i CANNOT tolerate.
i dun like pple venting their anger/fustration at me (or pple close to me) after a bad day at sch/work, and STILL insisting it is my fault.
everything happens for a reason, and every case should be treated separately unless obviously shown otherwise.
worse still, i dun like pple to complain/disturb my partner becoz of sumthing they r not happy abt me.
if they tink i did something wrong and they r seriously not happy abt it, tell me directly. if i agree i m at fault, i will apologise. if i dun tink i am, i will reason my stand out. we may shout and quarrel, but after dat it should be solved.
DUN ever resort to venting ur anger/fustrations on my partner. humans r very protective over the pple they love. i will take it very hardly.
thirdly, dun malign me for sumthing i didnt do. if u tink i did sumthing wrong, ask me for an explanation. u deserve to have 1, and its my responsibility to give u 1. dun ASSUME i have the intention to do wat u tink i did. humans do err unintentionally.
but if u ask for an explanation and i give u 1, i believe its mutual respect to believe the explanation dat came directly from me. if u wan to make me give the same explanation 3 times or more (there can only be 1 truth, even if u make me say 10 times, i will still say the same thing) and STILL not believe it without any reasonable grounds, den i rather u NOT ask me at all. but dun expect me to make the 1st move to pacify u.
juz a general point here, adults should have full knowledge and responsibility over their words and actions. if u insist on doing sumthing against the odds of reality, u have to learn to bear the consequences arising from it YOURSELF. if u r still a kid, fine, theres still an avenue to close 1 eye and say u r immature. if u r already an adult (or consider urself to be one), theres no excuse for it. i have to apply this rule to myself too.
i m not being harsh here, and i have no ill intentions. i juz wanna be straighforward so my stand comes across clear.
